The Summer Shoulder

(Via Sunny Gu )

Back in February (see link at bottom of the page), I reported on one of Spring 2016's hottest trends, the off the shoulder look. Now that we are in mid-Summer, it is the right time to be wearing the trend. I have a casual backyard party coming up, and I am looking for the perfect shoulder baring look. Let's see what I found for us.

HERE: 12 Fab Finds

Isa Afren Off The Shoulder Knot Top
Oh how I love this top! In this pic it is styled in a dressy way. You can easily pair it with denim or linen, as well.
Forward By Elyse Walker 

Polo Ralph Lauren
There's nothing better than a crisp white cotton shirt. This is how you wear it in the heat.
Ralph Lauren  

MLM Stripe Off-The-Shoulder Top
A little sexier than some with the sweetheart neckline and low back, but really striking!
Forever 21 

Olivia Palermo + Chelsea 28 Sweater and Pants

This entire look has me written all over it. I love the slimming effect of the bold stripes. The paper bag waist is super interesting. Both pieces are now 40% off at

Nordstrom  

Asilio Off-Shoulder Shirt

Oh this is interesting! It's 100% cotton and 1,000% chic.

Shoptiques   

JCrew Sunnies & Red Dress

Both are picks of Jenna Lyons, president and executive creative director of the J. Crew Group. Mine, too.  
JCrew   

Self Portrait Maxi
A beautiful dress with pretty pleats. 
ASOS and Matches Fashion  

Oleta Dress
This is a great dress. That midi length adds a certain chicness. The color adds the fun. 
Veronica Beard 

Corey Lynn Calter Denim Dress
Where couldn't you wear this dress? It sold out early, but get your name on the pre-order list for an August 1st Ship date.
Anthropologie

Tibi Off The Shoulder Tunic

Featuring a fab and feminine gingham check, this is a stylish Summery look. I would pair it with leggings or ankle pants.
Tibi  

Mara Hoffman Gauze Off The Shoulder Dress
Light and airy, this dress is patio party perfect. Almost sold out but you can still get it at 
Shopbop   and Free People  

Avery Top
Super soft in a jersey knit, this is a casual but sophisticated look. Available in three colors and unbelievably marked down.
Soft Surroundings

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Monday Mantras From Etsy

( Via Miss Poppy Design)

Changing things up today, and starting the week off on a positive note. I have learned through a very special friend, that nothing positive ever happens with a negative mind. My own "Mr. Shop This" is one of the most positive people I know. Lucky me to be living with such positive energy! So, today I am sharing some of my favorite mantras that often help me get through a difficult day. 

I don't know about you, but my resting bitc#h face is not so attractive. A sincere smile lights up your entire face. 
Jaclyn Rose Design at Etsy

Remember Marlo Thomas in "That Girl?" She had a twinkle in her eye and a real zest for life. Why not be "That Girl?" (I am so sorry but I lost my source for this quote)

I really believe that there is always a lesson in everything that happens in our life. Next time something really good or bad occurs, take a moment to question yourself and ask why? With reflection, you will find the reason sooner or later. It will make total sense.
Words and Confetti at Etsy    

 

This is a hard one. Once you learn to really just let it go, life is so much easier. Why be bogged down with negativity?
Beautiful Type at Etsy 

Happiness is a choice, and no one can make us truly happy except for ourself. I have learned as I get older, to never depend on anyone else for my own happiness. 
Wonderful Printable 

Ever since I successfully did the Lamaze method of childbirth, I use deep breathing to calm myself. Sometimes all you need is a moment to take a breath.
Words and Confetti at Etsy   

I have learned this the hard way. You do become what you think. Why not think positively?
PeDe Posters at Etsy   

Can you imagine a life where each and every one of us were kind at all times? There would be no war, no labeling, no hate, no hurt feelings....only good things. For me, kindness is the easiest virtue to practice. Give it a try.
By Dawn Nicole at Etsy  

I really feel that one must believe that we are worth the good things in life, in order to receive them. Try to tell yourself this every day.
Vegan Art By Tafida 

With practice, if you fill your mind and heart with constant gratefulness, there will be no room for sadness or negative thoughts.
The Lil Printables

Make it a Beautiful Monday! 

  

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Saturdays At Shop This

( Via The Zhush )

Happy weekend! I think we all need a breather after another scary week. I chose a laptop image for my opener, because I have had computers on my mind. Eight days without my little laptop was a test of my patience! Mine is back and better than ever but it needs that monogram  Decal from Zhush. Isn't it just the best? I have a few things to share with you.....

If you are like me, you can't stop thinking of our French friends. Such a tragedy! Try to replace the horrible images with these flawlessly French kitchen products at Food52
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I enjoyed this article and photos: Summer Entertaining Secrets by One King's Lane Co-founder, Susan Feldman.
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This weekend only, score Laura Geller's Color Drenched Lip Gloss and Dream Cream Lip Palettes for 50% off. No code needed.
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The Zoe Report gives us tips on sleeping: How To Actually Go To Sleep (And Wake Up) When You’re Supposed To.  I will add ridding your mind of negativity works wonders!
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Traveling? Even if you aren't in the near term, you want to read this: 3 Things Every Traveler Needs to Know About Their Passport
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The Nordstrom Anniversary Sale is finally here. If you are a Nordstrom Card member you have early access NOW. If not, you must wait until the 22nd. 
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Five Great Ways To Wear A Scarf
I've been doing the wrist tie this Summer.
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Look to Neiman Marcus for all the Fall fashion trends.  This Fall everything is velvet with a nod to 70's glamour. See what's in store now. 
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Shop This is now working with The Pure Collection, which is having a fabulous cashmere sale now. Welcome Yumi Kim, a New York designer with a colorful California vibe. I love the Caftans! 
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Bad Hair Don't Care
There's nothing a big hat, big shades, and lipstick won't cure.
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XOXO
Deb
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Foodie Friday: It's All About Ice Cream

( Via Inslee Designs )

You may know that July is National Ice Cream Month. The truth is, most of us scream for ice cream all year long. Let's think outside of the cardboard container and get fancy with our frozen treats. Here's lots of inspiration.

HERE: 22 Recipes & Accessories

Cherry Pie Ice Cream
This recipe features real pieces of chery pie filling and crust throughout. It's vegan, too!
Minimalist Baker  

Ice Cream Beignet Sandwiches

Here's a simple but elegant dessert. It's made with homemade donuts, chocolate sauce, and store bought ice cream. It's a fab idea!

Gourmet Traveller 

Melon and Citrus Popsicles

Everyone loves a popsicle, especially one as attractive as these. What a presentation! Three layers and three flavors. Think watermellon, grapefruit, cantaloupe, lime juice and elderflower liquer! This one is strictly for the grown ups.
Camilla Styles   

Ice Cream Set
These striped servers are ever so sweet. Perfect for your next ice cream social!
The Bakers Confections at Etsy

3 Unique Sundae Flavors
Oh how pretty! I want one of each. Find recipes for Watermelon Cherry, Tropical, and Mixed Berry treats. You can find the perfect soda fountain glasses to serve the sundaes HERE. Recipe at
The House That Lars Built

Ice Cream Mix Ins
My ice cream can not have too many ingredients. For me, the chunkier and gooeier, the better. Here's inspiration how to elevate your basic plain vanilla.
The Chic Site  

Solid Brass Ice Cream Scoop
For those who consider Ice Cream a work of art.
Food52  

S'mores Ice Cream Cupcakes
I have never had an ice cream cupcake, but I see that they are a "thing" these days. The recipe calls for Dreyers S'mores Ice Cream.
A Pumpkin and a Princess   

Black Raspberry Pie Milkshake
This recipe had me at at Black raspberry fudge! I have to say a milkshake is my favorite way to eat ice cream, especially when it looks as good as this.
How Sweet Eats  

Pistachio Mint Chip Ice Cream
This is the real deal, you guys. No artificial colors or flavors. What really gets my tastebuds going is that chocolate dipped cone!
Half Baked Harvest   

No-Churn Caramel Peanut Butter Cup Soft Pretzel Ice Cream Sammies w/Hot Fudge
There are ice cream sandwiches and then there are these. I mean... they are made with pretzel bread! Don't you just want one now?
Half Baked Harvest   

The Perfect Scoop
Just in case your mouth was not watering yet.
Huffington Post 

Neapoloitan Baked Alaskas
The only way you can make neapolitan ice cream more of a crowd pleaser is to slather it with meringue! Martha Stewart gives us a step by step tutorial.
Martha Stewart  

Snickers Ice Cream Cake
This is one indulgence that looks so worth the cheat and calories! 
Bakers Royale  

Caramel Ice Cream Cheesecake With Salted Butterscotch Sauce And Meringue
This one is for Mr. "Shop This" (minus the salt.)
Sugar Et Al

Cucumber Ice Cream
Before you rebuke the cuke, think about it. This recipe was served at a James Beard dinner with rave reviews. It must bee really refreshing, because a cucumber certainly is. One to try!
Tasting Table   

How To Make Ice Cream Without 
An Ice Cream Maker
I thought you would enjoy this easy how to. You can do it!
Home Life 

Red Velvet Cheesecake Ice Cream
With ingredients like Red Velvet Cake, Cool Whip, Sweetened Condensed Milk and cream cheese, how could this not be yummy?
Something Swanky   

Cuisinart The Fruit Scoop Ice Cream Maker
This is a nifty machine. It takes your ripe fruit and turns into frozen treats. Best yet, it is now 45% off at
Sur La Table 

Boozy Roasted Strawberry Ice Cream Sundae With Coconut Hot Fudge Sauce
Oh My! This vegan dessert is perfect for any romantic dinner.
Heather Christo  

Cuisinart® Classic Frozen Yogurt, Ice Cream and Sorbet Maker
Create 1.5 quarts of your favorite frozen treat in as little as 20 minutes. Now on sale and  sold exclusively at
Sur La Table

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