Wedding Wednesday: What To Wear To An Autumn Affair

{ Via: Tiffany LaBelle }

This post was born when my friend and illustrator, Tiffany LaBelle, first posted the stylish sketch above on her Instagram feed. If you love fashion and fabulous art, you should be following Tiffany.  The minute I receive a wedding invitation, one of the first things that comes to mind, is what will I wear. You, too?  One of my favorite style quotes is "Being well dressed is a beautiful form of politeness." So do dress up for the event. It's always wise to shop your closet, but even more fun to pick out something new. Celebrate love, romance and good style.

HERE: 15 Festive Finds

Marchese Notte Midi
From the Resort 2018 collection. You'll find this red hot number only at
Neiman Marcus 

BB Dakota
The Gretel dress is the fun younger sister of the dress Beyoncé wore in her Lemonade video. That shouldn't stop you from being the ray of sunshine at your next wedding. Very reasonably priced.
Nordstrom

Tiara Dotted Illusion Midi 
Never have I seen an Alexis style that I didn't like, but this one I love. It's fresh, elegant and has a sexy sweetness.
Neiman Marcus

Red Floral Dress
No wallflower here. As you may know, this Fall, florals are blooming everywhere. 
Boston Proper

Tuxedo Jacket

Dresses aren't the only things that can steal the show. Borrow from the boys and don a fitted dinner jacket.

Boston Proper

Elevated Accessories

A wedding is no place for your every day brown shoes and shoulder bag. Even if you are wearing your fave LBD, it can be elevated with the right accessories. Jon Jose's satin and pearl heels are perfect for those who can't do a stiletto. A beaded bag adds just the right amount of sparkle.

Emerald Dress

A really fabulous dress with style for days.

Sachin & Babi 

Split Sleeve Sheath

Calvin Klein creates timeless classics at all price points. This sleek LBD is now way less than $100. It will take you everywhere. Just add jewelry.

Calvin Klein

Zhen Dress
Loving the print of the silky fabric. It is a discreet animal print in a way that’s apparent only on close inspection. The metallic shoes add a dose of neutral glam. Perfect for an afternoon wedding.
Reiss

Silver Pleated Skirt
Shimmy and shine on the dance floor with this marvelous metallic skirt. Pair it with the matching shirt, or chose a contrasting sweater. The skirt will be your "go to" thru the New Year.
Kate Spade New York

Draped Satin Dress
In sensual sable brown, this drapey dress features a fabulous flow on the body.
Halston Heritage

Karen Velvet Dress
When in doubt, wear velvet, especially one so pretty in plum. For a limited time save 30%.
BCBGMAXAZRIA

Self Portrait The Asymmetric Wrap 
If you want to be named best dressed guest, wear this. It's been cut from navy crepe and is accented with contrasting black piping details throughout. Love!
Shopbop

One-Shoulder Bias Sequin Dress
Delicious diagonal stripes of miniature couture grade sequins in electric blue, bordeaux, navy, and black, are meticulously crafted on this show stealing sheath.
DVF

The Bluth Dress
Sheer brilliance. The Bluth is a fitted, partially-lined midi dress in contrasting delicate lace and spotted tulle.  Do click the link to see the beautiful back of this interesting dress.
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Coat Check: Outerwear That Wows

{ Via: Vogue }

Sweater weather quickly turned into coat season in the Windy City. A girl just can't have too many coats, and at least one ( or all ) of them should make a statement. That's easy to do this year with joyous pastel puff coats in candy  colors and bold silhouettes. Then there are those Fall florals and fun feathery finds. There's coats for girls mad for plaid, and others who prefer something that is shear-ling genius. 

Your coat wardrobe inspiration for the season starts here today.

HERE: 16 Wow Coats

Bacon Big Blanket 62 Jacket

A soft and sleeker than most Puffer Coat cuts an updated silhouette with a funnel neckline and cozy hood. Cool!
Shopbop 

Canary Faux Fur Jacket
Canary yellow faux fur is highlighted with black and white strands for a unique, statement-making topper.
Anthropologie

Religion Wrap Front Coat In Soft Brushed Check
Chic checks. Mad for plaid? This is what it looks like this season - bold, bright and big! Click to see it move on the runway.
ASOS 

Oversized Buckle Biker Jacket
Luxe leather details add interest to this sensational suede jacket. It's over-sized and fab! Loving that collar.
Free People 

Buffy Embroidered Long Coat

A true work of art, this topcoat is hand-embellished and embroidered in India by a team of artisans.
Alice + Olivia

Ombre Faux Fur
Oh how fun! A real bargain buy at less than $50.
Forever21

Elie Tahari Linda Coat
Call her whatever you want, but this fuzzy find is fabulous! The runway ready animal print on the shearling sleeves is done in the moodiest blue hue. That chain detail is cool, too.
Saks Fifth Avenue 

Italian Melton Wool-Blend Cape
I have always wanted a chic cape. For some of you in warmer climates, this is all that you need for the season. It has great style at less than $250. Available in Regular, Petite and Tall sizes.
Banana Republic

Lille Reversible Shearling Gilet
The reversible design offers seamless versatility and is cut to a slightly oversized silhouette. The flip side is luxe leather. Loving the Rosewood shade as shown, but also available in chocolate and natural.
REISS

Maxxeen Coat
A simple coat is turned into something very chic with soft fancy feathers. Just so much fun!
Club Monaco

Rose Silk Jacquard Coat
From the Michael Kors Collection. "“This fabulous rose jacquard will become your calling card,” says Michael.  And I think it is calling my name!
Michael Kors 

Checked Colour Block Coat
Don't be afraid to mix it up this season. This coat features some serious style details. Less than $250
Topshop

Escada Satin Coat
If you are going to purchase a black coat, make sure that it stands apart from the rest. This simple satin stunner does just that. Loving the fancy touch of the marabou feathers and crystal button closure.
Escada 

Calvin Klein Faux Fur Coat
I own a yellow coat, which isn't my favorite color. But let me tell you, it always brightens up a cold and gloomy day. I really enjoy wearing it. This faux fur is fabulous and covered in a clear vinyl. How fun is that?
Calvin Klein and Neiman Marcus

Kate Spade New York Leopard Collar Cape
This season Kate Spade is all about those leopard spots. I love them too. Of course if you get this chic cape, your really need to get the dress to go with it.  Spot on!
Kate Spade New York

Balloon Sleeve Trench Coat
A classic twill trench gets a modern update with a statement making balloon sleeve.
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Saturdays At Shop This: Sweet Dreams

{ Via: Vogue }

This Sunday marks the end of Daylight Saving Time. As we set our clocks back an hour, and get an extra hour to sleep, let's concentrate on how we can do that best. Here are some links that will keep you cozy, comfy and chic while you sleep this weekend.

It's a lot easier to be well, if you sleep well. Enter The Healthy Sleep Shop at Goop. 42 items that will help optimize a good night's sleep.
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Do you wear socks to bed? It may not be very sexy, but I must. Because "Mr. Shop This" runs warm, make that hot, and our bedroom is beyond cool. I found these Sleepy Sheepy Socks, and think they are so fun. Said to be the ultimate in softness and just like your favorite fluffy bathrobe. I'm ordering.
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And though I have never worn one, the idea of a sleeping mask intrigues me. Parker Thatch's Personalized Sleeping Sweetheart Mask makes a darling gift. On sale now at Horchow.
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The main event of the weekend is really bedtime. So why not surround yourself in the best bedding you can buy?  I suggest that you visit Coyuchi, home to pure fabrics like mother Nature intended. I have my eye on the 500 TC Organic Pima Sateen Sheets in fog.
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I never woke my sleeping baby, rejecting strict schedules. We were all happier that way. And babies sleep better when their inner temperature is regulated. The clothing company 37 Degrees from London, uses a smart fabric that maintains and regulates body heat by storing it in its fibers, then slowly releasing it when necessary. This means that babies get neither too warm nor too chilly. Genius right? Shop the collection at AHAlife.
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Beauty Sleep: I have had these pillowcases on my wish list for years. Maybe this year.....The Illuminage Skin Rejuvenating Pillowcases. They are infused with copper and clinically proven to reduce the appearance of wrinkles for smoother, younger-looking skin in as little as four weeks weeks. Not to mention the smoothing effects for your hair.
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Bedtime Book for urban babies: Count To Sleep New York City at Barneys
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Give the gift of a good night's sleep. The Dream to Sleep Gift Set by This Works, features essential oil superblends from Lavender to Chamomile and Vetivert, and a cozy eye mask will ensure they sleep tight.
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How is your mattress treating you? If you awaken with aches and pains, you may want to investigate the use of a "featherbed." We have used our Pacific Coast Featherbeds for years. I don't sleep well without one. You'll find them all on sale this weekend.
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Sunday just may be a good time for "Pajamas All Day." I could do that in this little get up at Anthropologie. You must click to see how comfy it looks.

Perhaps the worst part of turning back the clocks is that we (meaning me) have one less hour to wear our sunnies!  Try to find the light this weekend, Friends.

XOXO

Deb

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Foodie Friday: Next Level Sandwich Recipes

It's National Sandwich Day, how could I resist? The truth is, I haven't had a sandwich in over 20 years. It's the carb thing as I have stated before. However, "Mr. Shop This" loves my sandwiches, so I do make them often. A really good sandwich makes a simple dinner or elevated brown bag lunch.  Scroll down as we begin with the best sandwich of all - a not so basic PB & J.

HERE: 22 Recipes & Cooks Tools

PB & J Grilled Cheese
From the new Half Baked Harvest cookbook. This recipe is comfy, cozy, and the thing you want to make when you can't decide if you want sweet or savory!
Huffington Post

Honey Apple Cheddar And Bacon Panini

If I was to have a sandwich, it would be a Panini. There's something very appealing about grilled bread and ooey gooey cheese!
Half Baked Harvest

Cuisinart Griddler
A versatile tool is a contact grill, panini press, full grill, full griddle and half grill/half griddle all in one. Now on sale at
Sur La Table

Cheesy Sloppy Joe's
So if I were to eat any sandwich at all, it just might be this one. Doesn't a Sloppy Joe just bring back childhood memories? Ours never came with cheese, however!
Oh Sweet Basil

Parsnip Pigs In A Blanket
A great way to take meat out of your life is substituting a veggie. Here, these parsnip “pigs” in a blanket are served with a verdant chimichurri sauce.
Williams Sonoma

Southern Inspired Fried Chicken Sandwich
This recipe begins with brined chicken breasts. Said to be insanely crunchy, and the homemade mustard coleslaw adds even more crunch. 
Olivia's Cuisine

Lobster Grilled Cheese With Tarragon Garlic Butter
Since lobster is my favorite food of all, this recipe had to be included. This sandwich is all about the secret sauce and splurging on Brioche bread. The lobster is worth the splurge.
How Sweet Eats

Linen Bread Bags
Really good sandwiches begin with really good bread. These linen bags will keep the bread fresher and crisper longer. Not to mention how nice they look.
Food52

Apple Chutney & Prosciutto Melt With Gruyere Cheese And Pears
I don't even need a photo to know that all of these ingredients blended together will make one sensational sandwich!
Bakers Royale

Mexican Turkey Meatball Sandwiches
With Chiles, garlic, a little onion and Mexican spice, these meatballs certainly have the mex flavor, especially when they are steeped in enchilada sauce!
Foodie Crush

Sweet Potato Biscuit Breakfast Sandwich

This is a great after Thanksgiving recipe, as it uses some of your leftovers. You'll never want a MacDonalds breakfast sandwich again!

Heather Christo

Sandwich Plate
How cute are these plates? This porcelain plate serves up sandwiches with a smile.
Crate & Barrel

Crab & Cucumber Cocktail Sandwiches

These look much more difficult to make than they are. I once made 100 for a Tea Shower I hosted. Love it for Afternoon Tea or an unexpected cocktail party offering.
Gourmet Traveller

Brisket Grilled Cheese
The next time you make a brisket, make a little extra. Then make this sandwich! Your family will thank you.
Spicy Southern Kitchen

Goat Cheese Guac Burgers With Cheddar And Caramelized Onions
You knew that I had to include a burger. I often stuff mine with goat cheese.....it's pretty amazing! Add the guac and onions, and it must be downright decadent.
How Sweet Eats

Slow Cooker BBQ Chicken
This recipe couldn't be any easier. It has just two ingredients, homemade barbecue sauce and chicken. And that bun!
Give Me Some Oven

Miso Stewed Short Ribs French-Dip Sandwich
I just thought that this looked fabulous, and oh so different!
Lady & Pups

Sandwich Wrap Trio
If you craft your sandwiches like works of art, now you can artfully store them, too. These make so much sense, because plastic is so passé.
Food52 

Shrimp-and-Chorizo Tortas
A simple but super tasty recipe that sautés shrimp with chorizo and onion, then spoons them onto rolls and tops with tomato and avocado. YUM!
Food and Wine

Hoosier Pork Tenderloin Sandwich
Having gone to college in  Indiana, I know that this is a legit recipe. We girls would frequent an all night diner after a particularly "busy" evening and order these. The amount of mayo used is key. Don't skimp.
Food Network 

Turkey, Cranberry + Brie Sandwich 
The only thing that would make this recipe better, is putting that side of chips right on the sandwich for added crunch.
The Spruce 

S'mores Stuffed Doughnut Sandwich
Now you knew that I couldn't leave you without something sweet. Guess what these are stuffed with.  Homemade Beer Marshmallows! I am in.
Half Baked Harvest

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