Wedding Wednesday: A Registry Guide

I remember how serious I took this "registering business" when I was a young bride to be. Despite my fastidious efforts, we still received 12 unwanted candlesticks and seven irons as wedding gifts.  This is what registries are for. In 2016, many brides to be, already have a fully stocked kitchen. That doesn't mean that you wouldn't love Le Creuset's latest cherise cocotte, or a marvelous mandolin.  For the ultimate list in Registry Must Haves - look to Vogue.  Here's a listing of five favorite stores for Wedding Registries and inspiration for everything your heart desires.

Crate and Barrel
Who doesn't love Crate and Barrel? With fabulous finds for the kitchen, and nearly every room in the house, It is a fun place to register. Here's some inspiration.... 

Toast The Host
Find everything you need for all of your entertaining needs including the Libations Bar Cart (above) Martini glasses, pitchers, appetizer plates and more.
Crate and Barrel 

Dinnerware
Crate and Barrel offers a large selection of great everyday dinnerware. Most of the dishes are open stock meaning you can always replace pieces and add to your collection. You'll find the prices reasonable for the quality.
Crate and Barrel

Flatware
If you aren't into the real precious place settings, you can find both your daily and special occasion flatware here.
Crate and Barrel 
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Macy's 
Registering at Macy's does have it's perks. Receive a 20% discount for six months after your big day, on any remaining items on your registry. Plus get 10% off furniture. Macy's offers you and your guests access to name brands like Kate Spade New York, Martha Stewart, Rachael Ray, Clinton Kelly and more. You will find something at all price points. Here are some of my favorite picks. 

Trina Turk Bedding; Lenox monogram wine glasses; Vera Wang Wedgwood picture frame; Rachael Ray cutlery set; Kate Spade New York serving platter. 

House of Waterford crystal vase; Samsonite spinner luggage; Reidel decanter; Waterford 20-pc. china set; Kitchen Aid stand mixer.

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Neiman Marcus

Why not ask for the best? Neiman's offers the top of the line names that you want like Aerin, Michael Aram, Baccarat, Mackenzie Childs, and so many more. Neiman's offers gorgeous gift wrapping and Free Shipping always. There's a 10% completion discount on everything you didn't receive. Here are some ideas for your registry. I would love a shopping spree here! 

Luggage & Travel Accessories
Travel through life together in style! Register for luggage at Neiman Marcus.

Fine Linens
Bedding is expensive, especially king sized high thread count sheeting. Neiman Marcus offers fine linens from Ralph Lauren, Sferra, Pine Cone Hill, Peacock Alley and more luxe brands. Register for a good nights sleep.
Neiman Marcus 

Dinnerware
Even if you live a casual lifestyle, I urge you to register for two sets of dinnerware. One for everyday, and one for special occasions. You never know when you will want to invite the boss to dinner!
Neiman Marcus 

Home Decor
If you want beautiful items for your home register for them! You'll find something for every room and every style of decor. Your guests will be impressed with your good taste.
 Neiman Marcus  

Glassware and Barware
You are going to need a variety of glasses in your new home. Fnd gorgeous glassware from chic crystal to everyday essentials at....
Neiman Marcus

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Sur La Table
If you want the best in cooking products, this is where you register. With too many products to count and an online resource center, you can register and manage your registry from the comfort of your home.  

Cookware
Find brands like Le Creuset, Scanpan, All Clad, Staub and more. Sur La Tables own brand is also well priced.
Sur La Table 

Small Appliances
Sur La Table is a playground for couples who love to cook. You will find, KitchenAid mixers, Nespresso Coffee Makers, and more.
Sur La Table

Cooks Tools
From Pasta Makers to Mandolins to Tabletop Spiralizers, they have it all. You might as well ask for it!
 Sur La Table  

Baking Tools
Marble rolling pins, Silpat baking mats, the best cake pans and accessories. You'll find everything a baker needs for you and your sweetie.
Sur La Table 
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Target Wedding Registry 
There's one thing for sure, every single guest will know of Tar-jay (as I prefer to call it.) Their stores are in both big and little towns. It really just doesn't matter, as most of your guests will buy online anyway.  Best, yet, Target gives you 15% off to complete your registry after the event. Here are some things you will love.  

Target Style For The Home
With pricing like Target's, why not get a little help furnishing your home? Register for furniture, artwork, throw pillows and more
Target 

Neat Freaks
Boring, but you have to have these things! The couple that cleans together stays together. Keep your new nest neat and tidy with must haves like Dyson cordless and Roomba vacuums, irons, storage baskets and more
Target

Tech & Electronics
Target has some fantastic deals on electronics and tech devices. I say go for it. Your guests will be happy to get you what ever you want, within their budget.
Target



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Wedding Wednesday: The Dish On Registries

Now that you are engaged, take a minute and enjoy being in love. Then when the time feels right, take a breath and get going. You have work to do! Creating a registry can be fun but it is quite a bit of decision making. I urge you to look into the highest end stores, home blogs and magazines for inspiration. There you will find timeless, classic and on trend styles.  Just because prices might seem expensive to you, doesn't mean your guests won't be delighted to buy what you select. Dream big! 

Top Your Table
Even if you don't plan to serve "fancy" today, think about the future. Might you have your colleagues or boss for dinner or cocktails? Wouldn't you want to put your best foot forward? My suggestion is to register for two different types of dishes. Something for everyday, and another set for dressier events. Why not? Your guests are buying!

Villeroy and Bach New Wave
I became acquainted with this modern pattern at my neighbor's home.  It works perfectly in her urban environment. Without a pattern, it can mix with all color palettes and decor styles. It just may be the answer for the perfect pattern for everyday or fine dining.
Macy's

 The accessory pieces allow couples to show off their entertaining skills. 
Macy's

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Macy's

Gwyneth Tabletop
I am crazy for this horn inspired pattern! This would be fun mixed with solids. A sophisticated selection.
Ralph Lauren

Vietri Chevron Dinnerware
If you like these, please click thru to see an enlarged detail image. The chevron really glistens in the glass. Fabulous! Can I register for these after all of these years? I think I need them.
Belle and June

Michael Aram Silversmith Collection
Limoges porcelain gets just a little edge from the unexpected hammered silver trim. You will never get tired of this pattern, and it will always look luxe.
Macy's
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Drinkware
Everything tastes better in crystal!  The choices are endless. When it comes to wine and champagne, think in terms of serving a crowd. You should ask for a minimum count of 12 for each.

Glimmer Wrapped Glassware
These are fun and fanciful with an affordable price point. And don't save them for cocktails only. Why not elevate your milk, water and juice experience?
Anthropologie

Nason Moretti
Mouth-blown Murano glass, creates a colorful cocktail!. These are for the bride and groom who really wish big!
Barneys New York

Mikasa Cheers Collection

These glasses say cheers with style and inexpensively, too! Now on sale at
Marcy's

Style Your Stove
The cookware you use is important in both form and function. Why not make it good looking?

Liquida Collection
For the purist chef. Your food will be the star when prepared with this chic ceramic coated five piece set at
Anthropologie

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Le Creuset Matte Collection

What a striking new collection of French cookware. The range of colors with names like sisal, cotton and mineral blue, are ideal for the modern kitchen.
Le Creuset

Demeyere® John Pawson 

For the modern couple. I have long thought this was one of the best looking cookware anywhere. Designed by famous minimalistic British architect, John Pawson. 
Sur La Table


Prep The Chef
I don't believe in registering for $5.00 vegetable peelers. I mean, who can get excited about that? Cook's tools are a necessity, but please make them interesting!

Cork Knife Set
For the naturalist couple. This rustic but fabulous set is a perfect pick!
Anthropologie

Wish big with the Anthropologie Registry Shop

Pizza Stones
Making pizza together is great fun. Might as well make it with style and these handmade stones from Colorado. Perfect for baking and serving cookies and flatbread.
Provisions at Food52

Index Chopping Boards

I own these and can't imagine being without them. Efficient design for efficient kitchens. Dishwasher safe, too. They are on sale today at
A + R

Dress The Bed

A well dressed bed creates a peaceful and romantic atmosphere. Chose colors that are soothing and easy on the eye. And in general, the higher the thread count, the higher the quality.

Silver Langdon Collection
Sophisticated and elegant without being fussy. 
Now on sale at
Ralph Lauren

Border Frame Duvet Cover and Shams
For those who like to sleep quietly. This is a clean yet luxe look for any bed.
Serena and Lily

Astor Delft Bedding

I normally avoid flowers at all costs, but these colors and pretty pattern offers a modern tailored feel.
Designer's Guild

Registry Information Etiquette

Want to know just how to inform your guests about your registry? See what Colin Cowie has to say.

Colin Cowie

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Wedding Wednesday: Uncommon Gifting

My wedding was very large, with about 400 guests.  We received many gifts, and some were just lovely,  I still have the gift list. When reviewing the gifts recently, I saw that I received 6 toasters and 7 mixers. Really? Of course, each of those were returned, as I had received a toaster and mixer at bridal showers. When choosing a gift, at least check their registry.  In doing so you will see the colors they want, what they have, and the style of decor they desire. Finding a registry is simple, just Google "Jane Smith, Chicago Wedding Registry." Or look at the list of Registries at the end of the post.

Colin Cowie, party planner extraordinaire had the following to say about gifting: How Much Should I Give As A Wedding Gift?

"What you think what is appropriate and what you can afford to give. No one is going to judge you for the cost of your gift."

I will add, be thoughtful and creative, no matter what your budget. In a sea of china plates and wine glasses, an uncommon gift is a welcome one. Also another hint - do not bring your gift to the reception.  Be considerate of your hosts and send it before or after the event.  Here's a little inspiration for your own gift giving.

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Lucite Letters
Talk about a personal gift! Pair two of these letters in the couples initials. They make quite the statement at over 7 inches tall. Best yet, they go with any type of decor. it's a clearly clever gift.
C. Wonder

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Ray Geary Heart
This heart is swimming with a combination of over the counter pills cast in resin, by artist Ray Geary. Every piece is one of a kind and begs to be displayed.

AHALife

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A Cloud 9 Experience Gift
Consider the gift of the experience of a lifetime! If you just can't decide what to give, an experience is something they will never forget. Shop by the part of the country the couple live in.  A Romantic Dinner For Two in NYC, Chicago Fireworks Dinner Cruise, Gondola Dinner Cruise in Dallas, etc. You can pick the adventure or give an Experience Certificate. Fun and really something very different. I'd love it.
Cloud Nine Living

RabLabs Kiva Platters

These natural stone large platters are a luxe gift. Their natural beauty is amazing. Barney's has a stunning selection of colors.

Barney's New York

Perfect For: Couples who entertain

Fire Hurricane Lamp 

These indoor/outdoor tealights are priced right for buying in multiples. "Once the wick is fired up, the mirrored finish "dissolves" allowing the twinkle to show through the luster." Available in matt black or copper. You can bet they don't have any of these.

A + R Store 

Perfect for Casual Couples that might prefer wood to crystal

Monogrammed Faux Fur Throw 

A personalized gift is always appreciated, especially one this luxe. Choose from four fab faux furs, and select your own monogram style and thread colors. Ships free!

Zhush

Perfect for couples living in colder climates

Maison Martin Margiela 

Champagne Pail

Designed by the elusive and ever so revered fashion designer, Maison Martin Margiela. This is one unique container.  It has been handcrafted and the side is embossed with the designers stamp. You'll love the beautifully wrapped presentation. 

A + R Store

Perfect for fashion forward friends and champagne lovers.

Cooking Class Gift Cards

The couple that cook together stays together. Surely someone said that. These cooking classes are offered in most major cities across the country.  They make a fun date night.  Select an amount between $10 - $500.

Sur La Table

Perfect for Foodies and Couples who cook

Tse and Tse

Modern French design is pretty wonderful. These interesting shaped vessels are sold individually and oh so versatile. The couple will pair them with their fine china and their picnic-ware.

Shop Horn

Perfect for Chic Couples

9-Pc Horn Bartender Set

The couple will have this set for a very long time. It is classic in design, so it will never go out of style. Chances are, they will toast to your good taste each time they use it.  Cheers!

One Kings Lane

Perfect for all couples who enjoy a cocktail

If Only Recipe of the Month Collection
A curated collection of 25 star chefs.  In the first month, in addition to the two recipes of the month, your loved one will receive an elegant lacquered recipe box and a hand-signed recipe from Michael Mina. Each subsequent month, they will mail two seasonal recipes from the exceptional list of chefs to complete the collection. A truly unique gift, sure to put a smile on their face.
IfOnly

Perfect for foodies and home cooks

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Find A Wedding Registry

Amazon,  Barney's New York  Bloomingdales 
Crate and Barrel  Macy's  Neiman Marcus  
Sur La Table  Target  The Knot

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